Realize that your number one responsibility is to fulfill you fundamental human need to feel good mentally, physically and emotionally. Realize that you have the freedom and the authority to do anything you feel necessary to satisfy this basic need. Realize that you are in charge of your own life and well-being, for you benefit or suffer, feel good or bad, according to the consequences of everything you think, say, do and feel. You are in charge of your own life. Your number one responsibility is to fulfill your fundamental need to feel good mentally, physically and emotionally. You do not resist the reality of any unwanted circumstances and you accept the unwanted realities in your life and willingly allow them to be.