Self Confidence I

You are relaxed now, and because you are so relaxed you begin to feel free from all tension, anxiety, and fear. You now realize that you are more confident and sure of yourself because you have taken the enormous first step to helping yourself.

You begin to feel this strength from within, motivating you to overcome any and every obstacle that may stand in the way of your happiness, social life and home life. You will find that from this moment on you are developing more self control. You will now face every situation in a calm and relaxed state of mind. Your thinking is very clear and sharp at all times

You begin to feel that your self respect and confidence are expanding more and more each day in every way. You now realize that in the past you felt helpless and overwhelmed and you are replacing that with confidence, strength and self control. You are becoming a happy person now with a positive attitude towards life. You are succeeding now in all that you do and you have all the abilities necessary for success.

(Explain value judging and resisting.) Realize that unhappy relationships are caused by value judging and resisting yourself and others. Love is a natural state of being and you are naturally in a state of loving when you accept yourself and others totally and unconditionally. Realize that you do not have to approve of anyone’s actions, behavior or appearance in order to willingly accept and love them. Our actions are but the means we choose to satisfy our dominant needs to feel good. You feel warm and loving towards yourself and others, despite any undesired actions, behavior or appearance.